Comments on: how can i make sure my child doesnt develop social anxiety? http://www.socialanxietycares.com/social-anxiety-children/how-can-i-make-sure-my-child-doesnt-develop-social-anxiety Understanding and Dealing With Social Anxiety Tue, 22 Jun 2010 15:31:59 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Rabindra http://www.socialanxietycares.com/social-anxiety-children/how-can-i-make-sure-my-child-doesnt-develop-social-anxiety/comment-page-1#comment-365 Rabindra Mon, 14 Dec 2009 05:20:59 +0000 http://www.socialanxietycares.com/social-anxiety-children/how-can-i-make-sure-my-child-doesnt-develop-social-anxiety#comment-365 encourage your child and be supportive but aso support your child for going out and meeting people but don't be overally pushy let them find a way on their own but with your guidence.<br><b>References : </b><br> encourage your child and be supportive but aso support your child for going out and meeting people but don’t be overally pushy let them find a way on their own but with your guidence.
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]]> By: sassylass http://www.socialanxietycares.com/social-anxiety-children/how-can-i-make-sure-my-child-doesnt-develop-social-anxiety/comment-page-1#comment-364 sassylass Mon, 14 Dec 2009 04:35:59 +0000 http://www.socialanxietycares.com/social-anxiety-children/how-can-i-make-sure-my-child-doesnt-develop-social-anxiety#comment-364 I think your line of thinking is correct, that we teach our children so much by example. If you're worried that your own personality traits will develop by mere example in your child, perhaps you should work on changing those traits in yourself that you dislike. I don't know for sure, but I'm thinking that if you're overconcerned about your child developing social anxiety that you might end up creating just what you sought to dispel. As a teen I realized that I had certain personality traits which were a direct result of my stepfather's treatment. To say I resent him is putting it mildly, so that became my source of strength and determination in purging those traits from myself. It also helped me with parenting my sons, because I'm determined not to repeat what I experienced or be the cause of them feeling as I have felt. I hope that makes sense.<br><b>References : </b><br> I think your line of thinking is correct, that we teach our children so much by example. If you’re worried that your own personality traits will develop by mere example in your child, perhaps you should work on changing those traits in yourself that you dislike. I don’t know for sure, but I’m thinking that if you’re overconcerned about your child developing social anxiety that you might end up creating just what you sought to dispel.

As a teen I realized that I had certain personality traits which were a direct result of my stepfather’s treatment. To say I resent him is putting it mildly, so that became my source of strength and determination in purging those traits from myself. It also helped me with parenting my sons, because I’m determined not to repeat what I experienced or be the cause of them feeling as I have felt. I hope that makes sense.
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]]> By: tarheeler http://www.socialanxietycares.com/social-anxiety-children/how-can-i-make-sure-my-child-doesnt-develop-social-anxiety/comment-page-1#comment-363 tarheeler Mon, 14 Dec 2009 04:13:59 +0000 http://www.socialanxietycares.com/social-anxiety-children/how-can-i-make-sure-my-child-doesnt-develop-social-anxiety#comment-363 Start them as early as possible in groups and activities with other children. Make sure they will interact with them and do this at least 3 times per week so they can develop skills necessary to work with others. This also helps them get accustomed to adjusting to new environments/activities and helps them transition easily. Speak with them openly about talking to others and showing themselves friendly. Make sure they know to speak up for themselves. The best way of all is to not only tell them, but show them. :)<br><b>References : </b><br> Start them as early as possible in groups and activities with other children. Make sure they will interact with them and do this at least 3 times per week so they can develop skills necessary to work with others. This also helps them get accustomed to adjusting to new environments/activities and helps them transition easily. Speak with them openly about talking to others and showing themselves friendly. Make sure they know to speak up for themselves. The best way of all is to not only tell them, but show them. :)
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]]> By: Hiram R http://www.socialanxietycares.com/social-anxiety-children/how-can-i-make-sure-my-child-doesnt-develop-social-anxiety/comment-page-1#comment-362 Hiram R Mon, 14 Dec 2009 04:00:59 +0000 http://www.socialanxietycares.com/social-anxiety-children/how-can-i-make-sure-my-child-doesnt-develop-social-anxiety#comment-362 Raise him like a normal person hit him once in a while encourage him into activities but don't overload him and stuff<br><b>References : </b><br> Raise him like a normal person hit him once in a while encourage him into activities but don’t overload him and stuff
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]]> By: Hannibal the Afar http://www.socialanxietycares.com/social-anxiety-children/how-can-i-make-sure-my-child-doesnt-develop-social-anxiety/comment-page-1#comment-361 Hannibal the Afar Mon, 14 Dec 2009 03:19:59 +0000 http://www.socialanxietycares.com/social-anxiety-children/how-can-i-make-sure-my-child-doesnt-develop-social-anxiety#comment-361 Buy him a kennel and be sure to allow him to have visitors. You have to be consistent, though.<br><b>References : </b><br> Buy him a kennel and be sure to allow him to have visitors. You have to be consistent, though.
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